Quality People

     Everyone of us are born in a community ( or society), most of us are blessed with a relation of father mother siblings. 

    Our parents, nearest family members introduce us to the society we interact with the society from a very young age.

     We grow along with them and further in this journey we become  friends.

     Quality relationship is related to having relation with people of good character and conduct, having the relation with good people helps us to have a good relation with ourselves too.

 WHY WE NEED QUALITY PEOPLE?

     Everyone of us have witnessed our parents and elders in our homes taking the responsibilities of the household and making sure that every family member's needs are fulfilled. 

     Along with the sense of beholding the responsibilities of a family they are certain signs that give them the status of being quality people from the stage of being responsible person.

SPEECH AND CONDUCT

     The character of a person can be understood by the way in which he/she speaks to his/her parents, nearest family members, neighbours and friends.

     The difference can be spotted when a person uses Harsh/rude tune towards his/her own people and the person who uses respectful/merciful tone towards his family, neighbours and friends.

     Every one of us understand being a part of a family is a blessing and an individual is expected to have utmost respect towards his or her family, nearest family members, relatives and friends. 

     I do agree that differences do occur within a relation but a change is expected in the tone of speech used. A son can disagree with his mother, a daughter can disagree with her father and vice versa. we can have disagreements with our friends, family and others. An individual holds his/her disapproval in a most respectful manner is a sign of being a quality person.

An individual's treatment to others show how good his conduct is. You need to understand the way in which we treat our parents, friends shows how we conduct the other people in the society.

     Being able to find such people around you is a blessing try and stick to them to know the best form of tone and conduct to be used. 

     Being in company of quality people also helps us to reach our goals

that is the quality peoples along being good with their speech and conduct, they are also very determined to achieve their goals. 

     You witness them bearing great level of patience and sincerity towards their goals.

     So the quality people help you to be in the path of your goal and you get less chance of being distracted. 

     You also learn to be aware of  your speech and conduct. 

     If you are in the company of bad people then you lack the motivation to reach your goal. 

     Everyone of us have goals which we wish to fulfill and build our career along that part we may have strong

determination to be a writer, doctor etc., 

     when we are in company of good people they consistently provide us with motivation of continuing our travel along the path and also protect us from deviations to evil.

Now how to know the quality people they are certain signs that help us to identify them and make our life worthy and beautiful.

1.LIE 

     We all are the sons of Adam and every one of us by nature of being human being do commit mistakes. 

     One of the mistake that holds the status to know the attitude of a person towards line they are people who out of the human nature weakness and sometimes to do something good lie and on the other side there are people who lie as a habit.

     Be very careful, when you identify a person which such habit in your environment.

A person who lie as a habit is by default do not deserve to be held with the status of being a quality person. 

     Be alert with such people who speak bad about others in front of you in their absence, there is a greater possibility that the same person will speak something bad about you to someone else in your absence. 

     So being in company with such people can take you away from reality because you are been attentive to their lies and certainly all of these are myths.

2.Time

     We all have heard the quote 'time is money'. When you find yourself in company of people who waste their time by sitting idle

and certainly investing their time and energy in causing harm to the society rather than doing good, then it is time to give up on such relation. 

     The quality people in their life acknowledge their responsibilities and be attentive of their actions.

     A quality person grabs every opportunity to fulfill his/her dream and along with this they are aware of their societeil rules.

     They are never the less in their character and conduct. 

     Being in company with such people you learn that you have to be focused on your goal to be a writer or doctor or anything else.

      You also get motivated to fulfill your duties towards your parents, society and to yourself.

3.Comfort and pleasure

     When you find comfort in fulfilling your responsibilities towards your own people and being ahead in fulfillment of your desired goals, then a person feels contentment in his/her heart and mind. 

     This contentment can be achieved when we understand the difference between the good pleasure and a bad pleasure. 

     The good pleasure is the one which fills our heart and mind with contentment and the bad pleasure is the one which fills our heart and mind with guilt and  sadness. 

     When we run for the things that are completely unnecessary and that could harm our inner peace,

then it results in experiencing bad pleasure and due to this we feel restless and the guilt of being helpless make us dig deeper in the pit.

     When we are in company of good people we experience the taste of being worthy. We feel worthy of growing professionally and personally and also supporting our family members.

   Try to understand the responsibilities as an individual and follow it to the extent that you find comfort in fulfilling your responsibilities. 

     Once you taste the sweetness of being a worthy, then you boost yourself to earn the status of being a responsible citizen and being consistent with your efforts you be a Quality person yourself. 

     But this can only happen when you choose yourself to be in an environment of quality people.

4.SUPPORT

     The quality people tend to express their support to the others in need, without expecting anything in return. 

     We meet people in our life who promise us to stay in every part of our life. 

     They are till the very right movement but when the movement drops, they slip away. 

     Identify such people in your life as soon as possible and be alert of their promises. 

     A great sign of a quality person is he/she is always ready to help you when you witness a calamity

in your professional life or you had a terrible argument with your close ones. 

     They stand by you and help you to analyse the situation. They provide you the motivation to not give up. 

     A quality person may or may not provide solutions to your problems, but they stand by you when  no one else does. 

     They believe in you when no one does. Be thankful to those people and take opportunity to express gratitude for all their support in your life.

5.TO CORRECT

     We are living in an era where the people most likely are not open to be corrected by others. 

     You also might have witnessed the scenario when the children refused to get corrected by their own parents.

     Don't be that individual who falls in this category. 

     Be open to criticism from the people who are close to you and who are concerned about your wellbeing.

    Be ready to get corrected for the mistakes you have committed knowingly or unknowingly, intentionally or unintentionally. 

    Being corrected is a blessing,

because when you realise your mistake and correct it we give a chance to our inner self to repent and be a better person.

     A sign of a quality person is he or she tries to correct you in order to help you. 

     They are people that you might witness who speak what you actually want to listen but not the truth so be aware of the people, who express fake image of you just to please you.

     But instead be in the company of those who speak the truth and correct you when needed. 

     Being in company of quality people helps you to be a quality person.

The above are some of the signs for you to be mindful of choosing the people in your life. 

CONCLUSION

Every human being wants to get the recognition of being a responsible person getting successful in his professional as well as personal life.

     Now you might wonder if you find yourself in environment being absent of quality people then do not be discouraged be the one yourself be the candle that wiped away the darkness and start the journey of being a quality person.

     During the journey you would find the pleasure of lightning the several candles behind you. 

     Make little efforts💪 each day to gain the characteristics of a quality person this would be your contribution to a happy society and a gift to yourself for being able to fulfill your dreams and being successful in your professional and personal life.

All the best😊👍

5 second rule

 How 5 second rule changed my life

 'The 5 second rule' Book by Mel Robbins, the rule that work as a tool to get my job done the author speaks when you have clarity of the particular work but you lack the courage to do the work then the five second rule would work like magic in your life.

     The author describe about her life instances where she has applied this rule in every segment of her life from getting of her bed, receiving the phone calls to almost every segment of a life.

    When you are clear of the purpose of work, the method involved in doing that work but you lack the little push to get the work started then the 5 second rule can be that little push, all you need is to start counting 5 4 3 2 1 …and go.

SECRET OF THE RULE

A person might wonder how counting 5 4 3 2 1 can get the work done. The author describes that when we start counting 5 4 3 2 1

Start the countdown....

there is a blockage of thoughts and our brain focus only on the numbers. When i applied this rule in my life i realised that when i started counting the numbers it was as i have commanded my brain to block the negative thoughts and focus only on numbers.

     Apply this rule in your life like for waking up early in the morning. The night before you set an alarm and be determined to wake up early. 

     When the alarm rings then start counting 5 4 3 2 1 and then out the bed👍 now compared to the other days in your life when the alarm rings and in the next second the brain starts to provide you with all the good and bad thoughts regarding that particular work the good thing is you were determined to wake up early and the bad thing is you lack the courage to get up from the bed. 

      At this situation use this rule, it will work like the little push that provide you the courage to get up from the bed.

      The use of this rule helps us to block the negative thoughts and provides us of the lack of courage. Now start counting 5 4 3 2 1… Bingo you are out of your bed.

MAINTAIN CONSISTENCY

     The author speaks about the consistency of the 5 second rule. Start applying this rule in every segment of your life. 

     In this way you get the work done by training your brain to block the negative thoughts that stops you. 

     Apply this rule from the beginning of the day, if you feel difficulty waking up early in the morning you realise that once you start waking up early in the morning all the work is done parallel to that of previous one. 

     Use this rule to do that piece of work that you are good at but you lack the courage to actually show this to the world. 

     Try applying this rule to your personal life like your relationships👍

you have to confess to a person but your brain provides you with all the valid reasons not to do it and then you further justify yourself for not doing it. 

     This rule plays a crucial role in blocking all the negative thoughts.

     Now when you have a clarity that you want to confess to that person then use this rule and start counting 5 4 3 2 1 and then start walking to that person and start speaking use this opportunity to make your life beautiful😊.

‘HESITATION- A KISS OF DEATH'

     This phrase is used in the book by the author and it made me realise it was a little hesitation that stops me from doing the work that I am good at, but lack the courage to do it and show it to the world.

      I wanted to write online but i was hesitant every time i thought of posting my work i used to write and then erase everything because I lack the courage to do it. 

     The phrase of the author give me the courage to post my work online. You can try it too just sit at a place and think, how many times in your life you thought that you are good at this particular job but stop it, because you lack the courage and you are hesitant to show it to the world. 

     Your brain provides you with thoughts of not doing that work. 

     Realise the nature of recitation and try applying 5 second rule in your life you will see miracles in your life. 

     You will witness all your work done once you start getting your work done one after the another and by this you gain the confidence.

     This rule also helps you to boost your self confidence.

Conclusion

The 5 second rule is a tool that will give you the little push to get your work done when you are clear of the purpose and method of the work and all you need is the courage to do that work then use this rule to get that work done. This rule can do miracles in your life if you apply it in every segment of your life. By this you will notice that you have trained your brain to block the negative thoughts and just focus on numbers, and thus gets your work done 👍.

Welcome to the new vision of the life. Apply this rule in your life and witness the miracles.

 All the best.